I think what has disappointed me most about the now-venerable and hoary thread on sex that's been so prominent lately is that it veers so totally away from what is actually a very important topic, at least to me - the absolutely sacred aspect of sex. I've tried now and then, with limited success, to frame it in mere words.
Sexuality is something many of us find difficult to express or discuss. I think it's vastly important for us to understand its sacred aspects. Sex has a spiritual component. It is normal and desirable for sexual partners to experience deep melding, and a passage through worlds where they know not who or where they may begin or end.
I've recently learned a great trick. Of course, I can't find the website now, it's buried in my thousands of supposedly-organized bookmarks. The trick is tickling your amydgala.
The Gathering Spot is a PEERS empowerment website
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