okay...so I LOVE a good, HEALTHY, RESPECTFUL debate. I know I am new here, like super new, like an hour in, but I like coming in like a "wrecking ball" lol (sorry for the lame miley reference! really i am!!! lol) so I figured I would start a nice healthy debate : )
How do you feel about abortions? Is it really a RIGHT, considering it is a man made procedure and all, it is hard for me to look at it as a god given RIGHT, you know what I mean?
And honestly its not that I have a HUGE problem with it, I mean to me it would be aweful and VERY hard to live with myself, but for others I can tend to at times understand the decision. I just do not understand calling it a RIGHT. If you have the right to terminate your pregnancy, why does the male not have the same RIGHT, or hell why dont we all have the RIGHT to terminate the child after birth, because REALLY WHO DECIDES WHEN LIFE STARTS?
My bigger problem is not with abortion itself but the laws on it. First of all some states let you do legal abortions as far out as 22 weeks! In Indiana it is until 20 weeks! BABIES DREAM AT 17 WEEKS IN THE WOMB. I am sorry but by week 12 I was so in love with both of my babies if I would have lost them it would have been unbearable, so how can you say that 20 weeks is even considered an abortion, how is that not murder? Also, I can understand one abortion, after that I am lost especially when I know women who have had 3 or more, to me that is INSANE. When does it quit being a "mistake" or "choice" or "right" and become flat out murder? Anything after the 1st trimester and any more then one abortion should NOT be legal!
I would not judge anyone who has had an abortion and if you have had one please do not take offence to any of this, because it is merely my opinion, and who am I. I know it must have been an extremely painful and tough decision and only you know if it was the best one for all involved. I support your decision and offer my love, understanding, condolences, and support! if my message does not resonate or somehow disempowers you than it is NOT for you, so feel no obligation to take it! Also feel free to disagree and respectfully debate this topic with me!