New York Times on Near Death Experiences

Kenneth Ring: 'You Never Recover Your Original Self'

Published in the New York Times on Aug. 28, 1988

Probably the oldest mystery to vex mankind is what, if anything, occurs after death. For a decade, Kenneth Ring, a psychology professor and researcher at the University of Connecticut, has looked into the question through the near-death experiences of others. Like other researchers in the field, he has found some striking parallels in the ''out of body'' experiences people they say they experienced while near death. Mr. Ring ... talked with hundreds of people between the ages of 18 and 84 who have come close to physical death. [His books] Life at Death [and] Heading Toward Omega both deal with near-death experiences and how they change people's lives. A near-death experience ... often happens to individuals who find themselves on the verge of imminent biological death. It involves ... a sense of the most profound peace and well-being that is possible to imagine. It's a sense of being separate from the physical body and sometimes being able to see it as though a spectator off to one side or from up above. These people have a sense of moving through a dark space or tunnel toward a radiantly beautiful white or golden light. They are absorbed in that light, having in some cases a panoramic life review in which virtually everything that they've ever done in their life they're able to see; perhaps meeting the spirits of deceased love ones or friends. And in some cases, they are asked to make a decision as to whether they would like to continue or go back to their body. The most powerful antidote to the fear of death is coming close to death and having and remembering one of these experiences. So, one finding is that people who have a near-death experience almost totally lose their fear of death. After having a near-death experience, people believe the end of life isn't [the end]; they believe in some sort of life after death. Death vanishes for them. There's only life. They are so aware of what life is.

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fredburks's picture

What a both blessed and intense journey you have been on. I know you have much more to teach and share with us. Thanks so much for gifting us with a small part of your story. I look forward to more!

With sacred love flowing,
Fred

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UrsulaD's picture

What a journey you have had! Sometimes the Universe leads us on strange paths to get us to where we are meant to be and to allow us to learn the lessons we have chosen to learn.
It is wonderful that you met the man again and were able to let go of your anger.
I was giving a talk a few months ago when the subject of forgiveness came up. One lady took exception to this and said that my statement was "very trite". I briefly assured her that I had had enough experiences in my life where I learnt to forgive. The very next Monday, I was watching Oprah and what was the subject? Forgiveness. There were some truly inspiring stories and Dr. Robin, the Psychologist commented, "Not forgiving is like you drinking poison and then expecting somebody else to die from it!"
I know it is sometimes hard to forgive, but you are blessed that you were able to do so and this allows you to move on.
With lots of love and blessings
Ursula

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davelambert's picture

The main theme of the Course is Forgiveness, and nothing could be more central to what our experience here on 3D Earth has been all about.

 

Aquene, I have not read the Course In Miracles although I have heard much about it. I rarely can afford books. It's wonderful how your path has taken you from anger and loss to forgiveness and transcendence. Ajo! Thanks for sharing this marvelous experience!

 

8-D

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